No one is perfect, everyone has flaws- but how much is too much?
After going on a date that went VERY SOUR VERY FAST, I began to think that maybe I didn't give him a chance? Did I judge him too fast?
For me certain things are a YUGE turnoff. Like as in I'd rather stab my eyes out than have to sit with this person anymore. If you've read my most recent posts you'd probably know what my biggest pet peeves/turn offs are.
Something That I Cannot Look Past: A guy who can't dress himself
It's literally the one thing that I cannot overlook. If you come walking in with messy hair and flip flips WALK OUT THE DOOR PLEASE. So with my last date I really tried to hold onto the date and make it last but I really just couldn't get over the fact that he showed up looking like a hot mess while I was dressed ready to impress.
Things That I Can Look Over And Give Another Chance
My last date didn't pay for me...although he initiated the date and should have paid, I would have given him the benefit of the doubt (if he didn't dress like a bum). Also, if the person has a super corny sense of humor- I really don't like it but I'd give them a second chance because atleast I know they're trying.
It's important to remember that no one is going to be exactly like your ex and everyone is going to have their quirky parts about them, but also remember never to settle. Weigh out the persons pros and cons before deciding to hit the road and ghost them. Don't judge a book by its cover unless its something you know you'll literally never get over.