So it's come to my attention that some people think it's absurd to leave a guy (or girl) who treats you well...well it's not.
Ladies & gentlemen, do not date someone who you feel comfortable with. Don't settle!
There is a difference between being comfortable around the guy/girl and feeling like you can be yourself around that person.
What do all romance movies have in common? Passion.
Lets take The Notebook for example, you could see the momentum and fire between Allie and Noah; the high. And when she was with her fiancé Lon she loved him, but she was comfortable; no adventure, no high.
Recently I began casually dating someone. (yes one of my bumble dates, but no I'm not telling who!) He was a really great guy, treated me so well- better than any other guy I've ever been with, and I was in such 'awe' of this that I didn't really look at the full picture...I was falling for what he was doing for me and not who he really was. There was no spark, no high- I felt comfortable with him.
Like buying the black peplum top that I knew would look good instead of trying the shirt with the cute design- a safe bet.
Thankfully I realized what I had been doing pretty early on before we started seriously dating and I ended it.
I think it was the biggest wake up call I've ever had. I thought that after being with someone so unreliable that being with someone stable and who treated me well would solve all my problems but it didn't. You can't fall in love unless there's passion; unless he gives you that adrenaline rush- the high. But don't think I'm saying that you should date a douchebag, the right guy will treat you well AND give you that wild uncontrollable feeling.
So, don't settle for comfortable. You're better off being single than being miserable in a mediocre relationship that you think is going to make all your troubles go away. (Don't do it, even if your friends or family tell you otherwise!!!) Life is too short to be dating someone mediocre.